Learn as we live

Prejudice, an inevitable human trait.

It takes less than a minute to generate the idea, but it takes forever to diminish it. No matter how magnanimous one might be.

People said, human behaviour is understandable and in fact, predictable. Under certain circumstances, people will make similar decision to resolve it.

But, subconsciously, when we anticipate the possible reaction from others, how well could we be sure that we are not judging them by our prejudice against them?

How true is the impartiality in a human being?

What the hell is this?

There are two black "dots" in this picture, one is at the lower part of the picture, the smaller one is in the middle of the picture.

What do you think is this tiny black dot?

This is an ant I caught sight of on the floor … hmm … too tiny …

Believe it or not?

I say this is a flying plane in the sky … hmm … am I kidding you? Look at the lamp post!

Believe it or not?

Which is harder to believe?

People need proofs, facts and logical explaination to all "existing" objects and subjects. But are all these enough?

Sometimes, existence just seem to be made-believed.

Run run run run

I can’t possibly stop

Cause I don’t even wanna to

I gotta run as far as I could

Far from war and away from disaster

Run for my life, run for a future

Stumble as I may, tumble as it might

Stronger I shall be after all these trials

I shall see the first ray of sunrise

I shall see the last beam of sunset

Watching the moon smiling at me

With those stars blinking at me

Life’s gotta be as

FREE

Pax Thien Jolie, what a nice name, and what a fortunate name, given to a boy, whose life’s gonna change forever … just like his name …

It’s such grace that he was given this once in a life-time opportunity.

But when his adopted Mom approached him, he greeted her with a cry. The cry of fear, the cry of uncertainty, the cry of leaving a place that he has known for years.

When opportunity being held out to we adults, we act the same. We reject it with fear and uncertainties. Only to regret in our later life.

I wish I knew how it would feel to be free
I wish I could break all the chains holding me
I wish I could say all the things that I should say
Say ‘em loud say ‘em clear
For the whole wide world to hear

I wish I could share
All the love that’s in my heart
Remove all the bars that keep us apart
And I wish you could know how it FEELS to be me
Then you’d see and agree that every man should be free

I wish I could be like a bird in the sky
How sweet it would be if I found I could fly
Well I’d soar to the sun and look down at the sea
And I’d sing cos I know how it feels to be free

I wish I knew how it would feel to be free
I wish I could break all the chains holding me
And I wish I could say all the things that I wanna say
Say ‘em loud say ‘em clear
For the whole wide world to hear
Say ‘em loud say ‘em clear
For the whole wide world to hear
Say ‘em loud say ‘em clear
For the whole wide world to hear

One love one blood
One life you’ve got to do what you should
One life with each other
Sisters, brothers

One love but we’re not the same
We got to carry each other Carry each other
One One One One One…

I knew how it would feel to be free
I knew how it would feel to be free

寂寞是因为思念谁

你知不知道思念一个人的滋味
就像喝了一杯冰冷的水
然后用很长很长的时间
一颗一颗流成热泪
你知不知道寂寞的滋味
寂寞是因为思念谁
你知不知道痛苦的滋味
痛苦是因为想忘记谁
你知不知道忘记一个人的滋味
就像欣赏一种残酷的美
然后用很小很小的声音
告诉自己坚强面对
你知不知道寂寞的滋味
寂寞是因为思念谁
你知不知道痛苦的滋味
痛苦是因为想忘记谁
你知不知道
你知不知道
你知不知道寂寞的滋味
寂寞是因为思念谁
你知不知道思念一个人的滋味
就像喝了一杯冰冷的水
然后用很长很长的时间
一颗一颗流成热泪

It’s annoying to see a child crying, and sometimes it’s heart-breaking to see him crying inconsolably.

Very often, a new trick will distract him, which might even put a smile on his face.

We always perform tricks to distract a crying child, but we never know how to entertain our heart.

We dwelt on those unhappiness and willingly let it drown us … but then we blame on people, and the circumstances to have made us suffer …

You have the choice and it’s as easy as that … like giving a candy to a crying child …

Nowadays, it’s been real normal to being called auntie, kind of started to get use to it … or did I succumb to it?

But it does show some status, though an elderly status … but the word STATUS … soothes a bit.

Time, makes you older, but not wiser. The more candles I got, the more questions I have. On everything, just anything … so the lyrics was right … how do you expect me to tell the grey when you had taught me too many black and white?

It’s such an amazement to watch a child to slowly learn from the surroundings, ways to live his life in his very own way.

My little angel is in her learning stage, every single movement is a great exploration, a brand new experience and she pick it up real fast.

I can’t help laughing at her act of blowing off dust on her pacifier.

I had a good laugh and suddenly I was stunned.

I remembered how the elders used to warn us … don’t ill-treat your parents or your child shall do the same to you, or even worse.

I was reminded of an email where a couple made a set of wooden utensils for their elderly father, and how they were struck by the act of their young son playing with some wood, trying to make a set of utensils for them when they grew old.

Do unto others what you want others to do unto you.

I finally get what it means. It’s after all, not retribution but reproduction.

While life is meaningless without interaction with people and the surroundings, somewhere somehow lies the imbalance, the urgent needs of a compromise.

How often do I wished that I could be living my life, in my very own way, regardless of whoever and whatever that might come into my way.

In reality, I always find myself sandwiched.

While trying to satisfy everyone around me, I found myself very limited freedom and lack of true happiness.

I always thought I could juggle few tasks at one time, and managing well, it now proves me wrong. I had overestimated myself.

When everything in life comes together and reached the junction of life, I lost my balance.

I need a space for myself and I really needed some clear thoughts to cleanse my mind.

I just want to shout it out loud! GIVE ME SOME SPACE!