Learn as we live

I could still remember how I told a friend that if everyone could behave and react righteously … we need no policemen and lawyers …

Sometimes we questioned the verdict, sometimes we criticised the plans, we doubt the fairness of a decision …

But when we were given the ball to throw … we throw it in the same way … perhaps worse than others …

Every decision seem so easy to make, how could the decision be so unfair? You should have … and you could have … shouldn’t you?

But when we are in the shoes, how well could we handle it? How unbias could we be?

What’s more when there is the conflict of interest?

JUST is just a word we use to show our unsatisfaction, a word we use to protect our rights, a word we use to tell the world that we know what is RIGHT. RIGHT in the sense that it’s not against our wish.

Honesty, everyone love this.

We teach our children to be honest, never tell lies. They are to tell only the truth, not some made up stories.

In the adults’ world, we say something other than truth, we said it was because we don’t want to hurt others’ feelings. When we say something contradicting the truth, we say, it’s not as what we assumed it to be. When we say something sweet which is not the truth, we say it was because the other person will not like to hear the truth. We don’t tell the truth because of circumstances. We speak depending on who, when, where and why.

Each conversation of ours lead our children to another perspective of how the cycle of this universe works … conflicts start crushing the high value of HONESTY. The erosion started …

Prejudice, an inevitable human trait.

It takes less than a minute to generate the idea, but it takes forever to diminish it. No matter how magnanimous one might be.

People said, human behaviour is understandable and in fact, predictable. Under certain circumstances, people will make similar decision to resolve it.

But, subconsciously, when we anticipate the possible reaction from others, how well could we be sure that we are not judging them by our prejudice against them?

How true is the impartiality in a human being?

What the hell is this?

There are two black "dots" in this picture, one is at the lower part of the picture, the smaller one is in the middle of the picture.

What do you think is this tiny black dot?

This is an ant I caught sight of on the floor … hmm … too tiny …

Believe it or not?

I say this is a flying plane in the sky … hmm … am I kidding you? Look at the lamp post!

Believe it or not?

Which is harder to believe?

People need proofs, facts and logical explaination to all "existing" objects and subjects. But are all these enough?

Sometimes, existence just seem to be made-believed.

Run run run run

I can’t possibly stop

Cause I don’t even wanna to

I gotta run as far as I could

Far from war and away from disaster

Run for my life, run for a future

Stumble as I may, tumble as it might

Stronger I shall be after all these trials

I shall see the first ray of sunrise

I shall see the last beam of sunset

Watching the moon smiling at me

With those stars blinking at me

Life’s gotta be as

FREE

Pax Thien Jolie, what a nice name, and what a fortunate name, given to a boy, whose life’s gonna change forever … just like his name …

It’s such grace that he was given this once in a life-time opportunity.

But when his adopted Mom approached him, he greeted her with a cry. The cry of fear, the cry of uncertainty, the cry of leaving a place that he has known for years.

When opportunity being held out to we adults, we act the same. We reject it with fear and uncertainties. Only to regret in our later life.

I wish I knew how it would feel to be free
I wish I could break all the chains holding me
I wish I could say all the things that I should say
Say ‘em loud say ‘em clear
For the whole wide world to hear

I wish I could share
All the love that’s in my heart
Remove all the bars that keep us apart
And I wish you could know how it FEELS to be me
Then you’d see and agree that every man should be free

I wish I could be like a bird in the sky
How sweet it would be if I found I could fly
Well I’d soar to the sun and look down at the sea
And I’d sing cos I know how it feels to be free

I wish I knew how it would feel to be free
I wish I could break all the chains holding me
And I wish I could say all the things that I wanna say
Say ‘em loud say ‘em clear
For the whole wide world to hear
Say ‘em loud say ‘em clear
For the whole wide world to hear
Say ‘em loud say ‘em clear
For the whole wide world to hear

One love one blood
One life you’ve got to do what you should
One life with each other
Sisters, brothers

One love but we’re not the same
We got to carry each other Carry each other
One One One One One…

I knew how it would feel to be free
I knew how it would feel to be free

寂寞是因为思念谁

你知不知道思念一个人的滋味
就像喝了一杯冰冷的水
然后用很长很长的时间
一颗一颗流成热泪
你知不知道寂寞的滋味
寂寞是因为思念谁
你知不知道痛苦的滋味
痛苦是因为想忘记谁
你知不知道忘记一个人的滋味
就像欣赏一种残酷的美
然后用很小很小的声音
告诉自己坚强面对
你知不知道寂寞的滋味
寂寞是因为思念谁
你知不知道痛苦的滋味
痛苦是因为想忘记谁
你知不知道
你知不知道
你知不知道寂寞的滋味
寂寞是因为思念谁
你知不知道思念一个人的滋味
就像喝了一杯冰冷的水
然后用很长很长的时间
一颗一颗流成热泪

It’s annoying to see a child crying, and sometimes it’s heart-breaking to see him crying inconsolably.

Very often, a new trick will distract him, which might even put a smile on his face.

We always perform tricks to distract a crying child, but we never know how to entertain our heart.

We dwelt on those unhappiness and willingly let it drown us … but then we blame on people, and the circumstances to have made us suffer …

You have the choice and it’s as easy as that … like giving a candy to a crying child …

Nowadays, it’s been real normal to being called auntie, kind of started to get use to it … or did I succumb to it?

But it does show some status, though an elderly status … but the word STATUS … soothes a bit.

Time, makes you older, but not wiser. The more candles I got, the more questions I have. On everything, just anything … so the lyrics was right … how do you expect me to tell the grey when you had taught me too many black and white?